Elisha Bidwell: The Five Question Interview

Elisha Bidwell is the owner and chief book huntress of Lonely Hunter Books. 

Lonely Hunter Books is an independent, pop-up bookseller serving Elgin, Texas, and surrounding communities offering a highly curated selection of new and used books. They specialize in literary fiction that is diverse, inclusive, and a little bit weird.

Elisha’s favorite reads are the stories that walk us through the dark and disquieting parts of being human and accompany us on the deeply personal search for meaning and beauty.

1. Why did you move to Elgin? 

After many years in Austin, my husband, son, and I were longing for something a little slower, quieter, and with more space to explore. In 2022, we started searching for homes on wooded lots in Bastrop, but this was when the housing market was surging at record highs. About to give up, my husband asked if I’d like to see this one listing in Elgin. Knowing absolutely nothing about the town, we fell in love with the wooded, spacious neighborhood. I insisted we drive through the downtown area after touring the house to make sure Elgin was a place we could really settle. The Main St. area was so cute–it was undeniably a major deciding factor. Another night, I made my husband drive out after dark to see how starry the sky appeared, and that pretty much sealed the deal.  

2. What compelled you to create Lonely Hunter Books? 

By day, I am a mom to a multiply-disabled little boy and a mental health therapist for parents of similarly medically vulnerable and complex children. I burned out while my musician husband was doing a lot of long touring stretches, and I needed a creative project that had nothing to do with caregiving and everything to do with my passions and sense of identity. I am a voracious reader and love having a reason to curate and recommend books.  

3. Tell me three things you’ve learned in the past five years.

1. I’ve learned to listen to what a “yes” feels like in my body. And more and more, I’m learning to make choices that honor what feels aligned with whatever excites that sense of joy or rest–even when things are hard and I want to do what feels “safe.”

2. Boundaries! I’ve learned that boundaries are about what I’m going to do, not about what another person can and cannot do. It’s been a relief to release any illusion that I have control over anyone else’s behavior.

3. I am made for small-town life—I appreciate both the pace and the people. I truly love the people I’ve met here and am so grateful for the sense of community.

4. What are you currently making, reading, watching, or listening to?

I am listening to The Water Cure by Sophie Mackintosh which was Longlisted for the Booker Prize in 2018. It’s a haunting, dystopian, fable-like tale that definitely fits the Weird Girl Lit vibe toward which I am generally drawn.

I just started reading a physical copy of A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole which won the Pulitzer Prize for fiction in 1981. It’s about an eccentric, sometimes-hotdog-vendor, and I actually picked this up after Erin, co-owner of Lightnin’ Bar suggested doing a hotdog and champagne event in conjunction with one of my bookshop pop-ups. I love a good theme.

5. Cake or Pie?

I come from a long line of pie lovers where family gatherings were marked by the sound of clicking dominoes and tables of piled-high meringue. There is some serious competition in my family when it comes to pie making (and dominoes). I’ve been gluten-free for a couple of decades now, so although gluten-free cake is easier to find, I’ll always choose pie over cake, even if I have to leave the crust behind. 

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Twenty

Today marks twenty years of blogging, creating, and sharing online. I started my blog to connect with my sisters and mother, who lived on both coasts. At that time, I had just begun knitting, so the blog initially focused on knitting, cooking, and gardening. My cats, Bean and Noodle, also inspired the name of my Etsy shop, where I sold hand-knit baby hats starting in 2007.

For a few years, I blogged regularly and found it easy to cultivate an online community of fellow bloggers. I engaged in numerous conversations with commenters, discovered new interests, and even received design job offers from people who found my blog or Etsy shop.

As time passed, social media and my newsletter started to replace my blog as my primary platforms for sharing. However, I never completely stopped blogging. Since 2020, I’ve been publishing a series of Five Question Interviews featuring local women creatives and business owners from my small town and nearby communities.

Looking back at my old blog posts, Instagram updates, and newsletters is a lot of fun. They serve as a time capsule of my adult life, allowing me to see how much the trees we’ve planted have grown, revisit recipes I had forgotten, and remember some of my favorite finds online.

I appreciate y’all who have listened me to prattle on for all these years.

xoxo, Stacey 💌

My Favorite Things this Month 

Carbs and ink! Two of my favorite things combined to create this brilliant branding idea for a bakery in Quebec, or should I say boulangerie. 

I’m totally using this method to plant poppy seeds this month! The ice cubes mimic the natural freeze-thaw cycles of winter to help ensure poppy success!

I’ve been dreaming of this Morning Glory bread for a week. If you make this, please let me know how it turns out.

More tiny things… these gorgeous collages in matchbox frames are just amazing. 

 
Texas redbud, (Cercis canadensis var. texensis)

Winterspring, is that a thing? In my view, there are six seasons in a calendar year: winter, winterspring, spring, summer, summerfall, and fall. I particularly enjoy the misty, foggy, blossoming days of late winter just before spring.

Last weekend was filled with yard work, grilled burgers, and cyanotype experimentation.I hope you have the chance to feel the sun on your face this coming weekend, immerse yourself in a good book, or get your hands dirty in the garden.


Cheers, Stacey 💌

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