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Crocheting on a hillside

A Hillside in Michigan

This is a photo of my mother, Toni (and me)

taken in 1964.

In my mothers words…

"I am pregnant with Stacey, wearing my mothers tweed coat, and
crocheting lace for the soft flannel nightgowns I am making for the new
arrival…"

I think I love this photo so much because I can see that my mother loved me (and my sister) even before I landed in her arms. Thanks mom, this image feels like a big hug.

TV Tray Confessional

Pie
My family ran a kinda sorta truck stop called the Golden Spike Inn, sometime in the mid seventies.

  The Golden Spike was a truck stop in Byers, Colorado. Every Friday after school at Sunset Ridge Elementary we’d pile in the baby shit brown Buick Le Sabre and drive out to Kiowa County. I loved the ride. I looked forward to the ride all week, every week. We’d leave the windows down and the radio up high, listening to the Allman Brothers, Tanya Tucker and Charlie Rich. We knew we were getting close when the smell of cow manure hit us like heat escaping from an oven door. We’d shriek and hold our noses until we saw the Stuckey’s, happy that the stench had subsided, but a little sad that our ride was almost over. I also remember trying to figure out what movie was playing at the drive-in as we drove by at sunset on the way home Sunday nights. I have such a vivid image imprinted of Charlton Heston (as Moses)

  I don’t remember much about Byers…the water tower, the swings at the school and our trailer we stayed in . I loved swinging on the empty playground, I felt like ghost. I’d look at the black school windows and wonder about the kids that went there and was envious of their lives…  there.

  The golden spike was great, your quintessential truck stop grub…Denver omelets, open-face chili burgers and BLT’s. My sisters and I would hang out all day and night making suicides at the soda fountain, swiping cherry Certs from under the cash register, an feeding the jukebox. To this day I’m stopped dead in my tracks whenever I hear one of those songs, which isn’t often. The jukebox was full of songs by Charlie Pride, Helen Reddy, the Kendalls, Dolly Parton, and at my sister’s insistence… Marie Osmond. Can anyone hum a few bars of " Paper Roses" ?

I embraced this part of my life and credit (or blame) those years for my penchant for diners, Airstream trailers, Loretta Lynn and all things that smack of retro Americana culture. 

Tic Tac Toe

The floor we decided to put down in the second living room is plywood, believe it or not. I trusted DH to see his vision through and I love it. It’s Russian birch and came in big 5′ squares….and we turned each square so the grain would alternate. pretty cool effect. Check out the pics on Flickr